As a human being, it is normal to have sex, and it’s normal to discuss it as well. Perhaps you’re a husband who’s feeling like your sex life is getting dull or monotonous, or maybe you feel like you can’t satisfy your wife/partner very well, if so then you’ve landed on the right article. In this article, we’re going to hand out some tips on how to spice up your sex life, don’t be ashamed because you’re not alone. If you’re curious what those tips are, consider reading this article to know more how.

Try Something New

The first tip that we can give you is to try something new; perhaps you’re bored because you always do sex in the same way. So, try something new, perhaps you have a fetish that you want to try, or maybe you’re thinking to buy some toys, whatever it is, you do you. Make sure to ask if your partner is comfortable with trying something new though, as your kinks might not fit with your partner.

Tip: Don’t try anything extreme, and not to mention doing anything in public, or else you might get arrested.

Discuss With Your Partner

ConversationAs we’ve written before, it’s not a guarantee that your partner might like to what you’ve requested, this is why you should discuss with your partner on how to spice up your sex life, it might be a bit cringe, but it’s a lot better to talk with your partner. You might not get what you exactly want, but at least this way you and your partner can have mutual ideas that might bring more fun to your night. Perhaps you like BDSM, and your partner likes roleplaying, maybe you can combine the two of it to create something new in the sex itself.

Refrain From Doing it

CoupleThe last tip from us when nothing’s worked is to refrain from doing any sexual activities for some time. If you kept doing it and it’s not giving you any pleasure or fun, there’s a chance that you might’ve done it too much, so refrain from doing it too much. Who knows that a bit of absence might spark the desire of wanting to have sex, make sure to discuss with your partners first. Using pills are okay, but make sure you do some research or consult with your doctors or else you might get addiction from using them.